Words to live by...

Pass on some useful advice or information you learned and always remembered. this one is a bit tougher than the first prompts for this challenge. I have had some amazing examples, gotten wonderful advice and and heard countless awesome sermons but while thinking more about this one moment kept popping up in my mind.  

Coming up in just a couple weeks my husband and I will be married for 4 years (I can't believe it!) but my grandparents are now married for almost 54! They celebrated their 50th anniversary just weeks before our wedding. At our reception my grandpa took us aside and gave us a blessing... and some words of advice... and they have come back to me time after time.

Forgive always. Don't always have to be right. And bring her coffee in the morning (which my Nana seconded!) Most of all, keep God at the center of your relationship. 

so glad the moment was captured! 

Because of the distance we don't get to see my grandparents as often as I would like, but their example and advice has meant so much to me. Desmond and I often say we want to be like them.. still holding hands 50 years from now! 

What advice have you gotten that has always stuck with you?

xo Carly

Get my passport ready!

Blogtember day 2... I love this topic... basically day dreaming out loud :)

If you could take three months off from your current life and do anything in the world, what would you do? 

Well I'll start by saying I love my life... I'm really very happy with where I am at now (not that I don't have tons more that I want to do/accomplish... but you know) but if someone forced me and offered to pay of course! I would travel a whole lot..

... I'd go visit all my family in the States! my grandparents, aunts and uncles and of course my little brother out in AZ...

... and my parents in Ireland.. (oh wait, I AM going to do that in 2 weeks)...

i can't wait!!

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... and finally take that trip to Paris with miss P(and leave the kids at home!)...

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... and travel to all those places that we have dreamed about going.. Kenya.. China.. Italy.. Australia...  

and some island getaway with this guy...

Hmm.. he probably won't be 
thrilled about this picture going up on here...
but thats what he gets for always hiding from the camera :)

and since I'm dreaming here I would take some time first to shop for a whole new travel wardrobe of course! 

The thing is.. I hope to actually do these things one day.. so I'd like to think its not so much if, but when :)

(ok.. except for maybe the new wardrobe..) 

What about you? What would you do if you had 3 months off and a big fat bank account?

xo Carly

Wait... where am I from?

Lately I have been wanting to get more consequent about blogging more often but it seems things always get in the way... the list of excuses is really long.. but when I saw this "Blogtember" challenge over at Story Of My Life I thought it might be a good chance to start blogging more. I won't be doing every day... but I will do as many as I can! 

Today is day one and the topic is to describe where or what you come from. Seems like the perfect place to start! 

There are so many sides to this topic but lets start with the where. I am very proud to be an American. Its definitely part of who I am.. but I have now spent more than half my life living outside the states. When I was little my parents became missionaries to Lithuania and now for the past 4 years I have lived here in the Netherlands! 

Each place I have lived has really influenced who I am in so many ways. I am still very proud that I come from the most amazing country on earth (in my opinion) and I know that being brought up in an American household has formed my ways of thinking in a lot of areas. an outgoing attitude. a can-do way of thinking. and yes.. a strong sense of patriotism. 

  Our years in Lithuania also taught me a lot as well.. about adjusting. about what is really important. about how just because things are different doesn't make them wrong. I spent my teen years there and it changed me forever. 

And yet I continue to learn and grow and adjust here in Holland. It helps that my husband is from here.. and that the culture is so diverse.. and that I have an amazing support network of friends and family who are there on the days when I don't feel that I fit in. 

I have gotten a thicker skin. Grown a tad more sarcastic (it rubs off on you after a while :)).. I've grown up and become more independent. more reliant on my relationship with God. and I have fallen in love with this country and the people here. 

I have the feeling sometimes that I don't necessarily fit in anywhere. But instead of trying to focus on that part of it I try to take the best from all the places I have been in my life... and let it form me. hopefully for the better. 

I was also planning on writing today about the "who and what" part of where I come from but I feel I have rambled on for long enough already. 

I hope you enjoy maybe getting to know me a little better this month. Have a wonderful day! 

xo Carly

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